Never mind, I got it.
What the problem was is that i was using a cable that had the connection to my computers com port, but the other end had a connection that plugged into the mic jack on the vx-10, i was looking around and found another extension of this cable, and u plug the extension into the male connecter that wouldve went into the mic jack, and then plug the extension into the mic jack and it worked perfectly
Thanks again though for all your help it is greatly appreciated, without your wisdom and time explaining to me on how to do this, I would have never gotten this done.
Thanks again!!!!